Titty Tuesday

Posted by Lilith on May 10, 2011

Happy titty tuesday

xoxo Lilith Diana

 Saying Goodbye to Another Strip Club …

Posted by Lilith on May 4, 2011

And not just any strip club, one of our favorites — Rick’s Cabaret.

Ash and I seem to go through phases with clubs, and they usually tend to revolve around a couple of factors:
1.) Location
2.) Price (Is there a cover? How expensive are the drinks?)
3.) Service (Is it stuffy? Are there so many people there that we just get lost? What’s the staff like?)

Rick’s became our place for quite a while. It was easy to get to, there was no cover, and they had a $5 drink special for locals, and we almost always had a good experience.

But last week, I got some bad news from a friend: Rick’s closed. I was shocked. I really couldn’t wrap my mind around it. We had visited it recently, and it was packed and seemed to be doing well, but apparently that wasn’t the case. And it closed.

Guess I can get rid of this ... Kinda sad.

So, for nostalgia’s sake, here are some my posts about some of sexy times at Rick’s:

Rick’s Cabaret
Caught with my pants down at Rick’s Cabaret
Proud to be a Rick’s Frequenter

Guess we gotta find a new place, and although it’s a little sad and a little shocking, I’m also up for the challenge.

xoxo Lilith Diana

Sin City Sex Blog

 When Life Gets in the Way

Posted by Lilith on May 2, 2011

I have written about how important I think sex is in relationships. In my relationship I know it is an important element. Ash and I are both sexual creatures, but its more than that. Sex releases stress and tension, it makes us feel closer as a couple and it just makes every thing better. But as much as both of us know how important having sex is, sometimes life gets in the way, and there just isn’t much you can do about it.

Two weeks ago, Ash and I went on a trip with some friends. We were staying with people and really had no alone time. Now usually, this is not a problem because we’ve always been able to sneak away, but that wasn’t the case this time. For some reason we just couldn’t catch more than a minute of alone time. And as quick as a quickie can be, it just wasn’t reasonable.

The second we got home, we basically ripped each other’s clothes off and had great sex. It was much needed and amazing, and I think we both wanted more. But after a nap, Ash woke up incredibly sick. He hadn’t been feeling well for a few days, but it had subsided just until we made it home. To some extent, it’s a good thing. Being sick on vacation is never fun, but it was a bit of a bummer.

Well that was a week ago, and after a weekend of staying in Ash is starting to feel better. But as luck would have it, I am now not doing well. Of course, sex isn’t completely off the table, but when you’re miserable, having hot and cold flashes and can hardly move, sex isn’t really the first thing on your mind — especially when you’re liquored up on NyQuil.

And to add insult to injury, when I am sexually frustrated, I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I’ll admit it. I become a bit of a bitch, and the only thing that makes it better is a big cock somewhere inside me.

I ended up getting a little drunk one night over the weekend, and by a little drunk I mean, I don’t remember much. But I woke up the next day and read this tweet:

Thankfully, Ash puts up with me — and my temper tantrums — really well. Also, I think Ash and I are both on the mend. Hopefully we’ll both be up for one of our regular sex-filled, crazy weekends. I think we both need it.

xoxo Lilith Diana

Sin City Sex Blog

 At the Palomino with Stormy Daniels

Posted by Lilith on April 25, 2011

A few weeks ago, I posted about my fantasies for an upcoming night at The Palomino. Ash and I were going to the Palomino and we would be surrounded by beautiful women – and I’m not talking about the dancers. I’m talking about Moxxie Maddron, Athena Pleasures and Stormy Daniels.

Although my fantasy didn’t play out entirely like I had dreamed up, it was a great night.

First of all, being at a strip club with my man is already a night to be excited about. But add in some good, sexy friends in the industry and one of the most famous porn stars ever, and come on, how can that be bad?!

Not only did we have great conversation, we had many drinks, I lost my “making it rain virginity” with Stormy and later we got a couple dances from her. And of course, we ended the night with me licking some liquor-infused whipped cream off Moxxie’s nice, big boobies. So at least some of my fantasy came true!

You would think that conversation wouldn’t be the highlight at a strip club, but that’s not really how Ash and I role. Conversation with each other and with the dancers is always a fun part of the experience. And Friday night definitely topped it.

Stormy is so damn sexy!

At one point in the night it was Moxxie, Athena, Stormy, Cubby, Jack Spade and Ash and me. Everyone was swapping stories, including some pretty great ones from Stormy. Allow me to expound.

Before Stormy got into the adult film industry, she was a dancer, and boy did she have some great stories from those days – one including a drunk ass customer trying to light a fellow dancer’s tampon string – that was peaking out of her thong – on fire, justifying his move by saying he thought it was a firework. That guy was then beat — to the point of having to call an ambulance to take him to the emergency room — with the dancer’s leather, stiletto boot.

Like most porn stars, Stormy Daniels has seen some crazy shit in her days in the industry. She also told us about a guy in the adult industry that stuck a piece of licorice inside his penis hole. Although painful, apparently the body heat melts the licorice so when the guy gets off, it tastes like candy cum. For a split second while Stormy was telling us about this, I could see the wheels in Ash’s head turning. He was actually considering this idea … that was until he also considered the mechanics – and the fact that they do make flavored lube.

At one point in the night male performer, Jack Spade leaned over and said, “I learned some lessons from Stormy. She’s amazing.” I was instantly intrigued. Never for one moment did I doubt that Stormy had some words of wisdom, but I wanted to know what they were. So, of course, I asked. The conversation went something like this:

“Jack is so funny,” she said. “I gave him a blow job like 10 years ago, and he still remembers it. It’s all because of the twist and tug.” Stormy started demonstrating (only with her hands and the air) the twist, tug and suck technique, which incorporates twisting both hands in different directions while jerking off (tugging) the cock, while sucking. I can imagine that the stimulation is pretty amazing for a guy, but I also imagine it takes some practice for a girl. I do plan on getting that practice. If a guy in the industry still remembers a specific blow job, it must have been pretty damn good. And I would like my blow jobs to be that good!

Stormy had to leave us for a while. She was going up on stage soon, so the gang made our way to the stage to tip and gawk at the beautiful Stormy Daniels on stage. And let me tell you, I was gawking. I have seen a lot of girls dance, and I have seen a lot of adult actresses feature dance, but I have never seen anything like this before.

Stormy danced to Metallica’s Enter Sandman – that’s a long-ass song, and she didn’t lose energy or sexiness for a second. Athena and I were sitting closest to the stage, so Jack handed me a bunch of ones and told me to “Make It Rain on her.” I have never made it rain on anyone before, so I was nervous. I didn’t want to look like a fool, unfortunately, I did. I had no idea what I was doing. Apparently there is a “Making It Rain” technique. I have no technique. AT ALL.. I told Stormy I wanted to make it rain on her, so she turned around, stuck her amazing ass out and started shaking it. I then proceeded to simply drop the dollars on her, and because I felt to silly, I made sure to add my own sound effects. I was “Ohhhing” and “Awwing”and dancing around to a ridiculous degree. It was pretty mortifying. So much so, in fact, that once Stormy was done dancing and back at the bar with us, we started talking about how much I needed some practice. She suggested that I practice on Ash. But she said, “He doesn’t need to be naked or stripping, because that’s just weird for men. Just practice on him when he’s doing the dishes or vacuuming. Now that’s sexy!” Hilarious!

We were about ready to go, but there was no way we were leaving without a dance from her. Seriously, who gets a lap dance from one of the most beautiful women in Adult movie? Ash and I, that’s who!! It was pretty awesome. She is so sexy and definitely knows how to work her body. It was a great way to end the night!

All in all, the night was probably better than my fantasy. I mean, sure my titties didn’t get licked, but Ash made up for that later.

Xoxo Lilith Diana

Sin City Sex Blog

 Reader Question: How to get my girl to go anal

Posted by Lilith on April 11, 2011

I recently received a facebook message from a reader asking for anal sex advice. He really wants to have it, but his girlfriend is afraid of the pain. So I put together a few notes for him …

Dear Facebook friend,

Thanks for contacting me. I am happy to help as much as I can!
I have to admit that I somewhat share your girlfriend’s hesitation about anal sex. Going up the butt wasn’t on the table in my relationship for a really long time, and even now, it is reserved for the most special occasions or when I’m drunk enough to agree to it.
That being said, here is some of the advice I received when I was considering the butt.

• Let her ease into it. This could take a night, but it could also take days or weeks (depending on how into it she is).
• Start with a little anal play. Maybe when you go down on her just flick the tip of your tongue around the area. See how comfortable she is with that.
• Then maybe move to a finger (with her permission of course). Use lube of some kind and just start by playing with the area until you and her are comfortable with you slipping in your finger. I usually like this when Ash is fucking me, especially if I’m close, or when he is going down on me. If I’m at that point, he could probably do just about anything to me. I’m relaxed, turned on, and as long as it doesn’t ruin my orgasm, I’m pretty much down for anything.
• After there is some comfort with that, I would suggest moving up to a small plug — bigger than a finger, smaller than your dick.
• At that point, encourage her to practice, practice, practice — both with and without you around.
• Having her explore her ass on her own is a good thing. She’ll learn what she likes, what she doesn’t, and there won’t be any pressure.
• But it’s also fun to have her insert it while you are fucking her. If she can relax, enjoy herself, and ultimately come like this, you are a lucky man!
• After that, I’d say the ass is fair game for you and your junk. One idea I heard, but haven’t tried is if you guys know you’re going to have anal sex that night, she could insert her plug and wear it for a few hours. I’ve hear this is incredible foreplay, and it prepares the area for you.

Alexis Texas has the best ass I've ever seen!

And here are just a few tips:

• Always, always use some kind of lube — and lots of it.
• Try to wait until she is relaxed as possible. If she’s stressed or tense, it’s going to be a bit harder.
• If she lets you enter her starfish, do what she tells you. It’s a big deal for a lot of women, and if you don’t listen, I can pretty much guarantee that that will be the last time you’re ever close to her ass.
• A good friend (male) once told me, “If he wants to put it in your ass, he should be okay with you sticking a dildo in his ass. He will respect you and that area if he’s worried about his own asshole.” So what would you be comfortable with?
• This is a bit of a dirty detail, but it could be part of your experience. Anal sex can be messy. How will you react to that? Because most likely it will be mortifying to her, and if you can’t just laugh it off, tell her it just makes you love her more, etc., it can be a traumatic experience, and one that may not be repeated

Finally, and most importantly, is she even open to having anal sex? This will pretty much be the crux of the entire experience. If she is, then get to work on the above and consider yourself lucky, and tell her how lucky you are. If she isn’t, then it probably doesn’t matter how many ideas you have to try, it’s most likely won’t happen. And I guess at that point, you have to decide how important going up the butt is to you.

Hope this helps. Keep me posted.

xoxo Lilith

 #ThongThursday

Posted by Lilith on April 7, 2011

Already starting to work on my tan. Unfortunately, I’m so fair that I pretty much come in two colors, shades of white or shades of red. Here you see a little of both…

xoxo Lilith Diana

Sin City Sex Blog

 Adult Wii Game ?!

Posted by Lilith on

I think Ash said it best: If i had any desire to spank you id just do it. i certainly don’t need the wii to tell me to.

I totally agree with his statement, although I also think that Ash and I could possibly be more open with each other, communicative, playful and into trying new things together than the average couple.

So if you’re looking for a way to tell your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner that you’d like them to spank you and you have a Wii, maybe this is a perfect way… but probably not.

I’m all about products/ways that help relationships in the bedroom. This just seems like they are hitting the wrong demographic. It looks like XXX spin the bottle for todays teens. “Back in my day we didn’t have fancy toys. We had a bottle. And I had to walk buck naked through 40 miles of snow to get to the orgy.”

Spin the bottle: Cheaper than a Wii and just as effective.

And WTF are they doing in the beginning? Eating an apple Wiimote? Fuckin’ seriously? I am a little curious as to how many of these silly mini games they could come up with.

I would be happy to hear that I am wrong. Maybe it’s the best game ever. And if that’s the case, I have a Wii. I would be willing to pick it up if someone could convince me it’s worthwhile. But alas, it it not set for release in the US. Just Canada and a few European countries.

Happy spanking you Canadians!

xoxo Lilith Diana