When Life Gets in the Way

Posted by Lilith on May 2, 2011

I have written about how important I think sex is in relationships. In my relationship I know it is an important element. Ash and I are both sexual creatures, but its more than that. Sex releases stress and tension, it makes us feel closer as a couple and it just makes every thing better. But as much as both of us know how important having sex is, sometimes life gets in the way, and there just isn’t much you can do about it.

Two weeks ago, Ash and I went on a trip with some friends. We were staying with people and really had no alone time. Now usually, this is not a problem because we’ve always been able to sneak away, but that wasn’t the case this time. For some reason we just couldn’t catch more than a minute of alone time. And as quick as a quickie can be, it just wasn’t reasonable.

The second we got home, we basically ripped each other’s clothes off and had great sex. It was much needed and amazing, and I think we both wanted more. But after a nap, Ash woke up incredibly sick. He hadn’t been feeling well for a few days, but it had subsided just until we made it home. To some extent, it’s a good thing. Being sick on vacation is never fun, but it was a bit of a bummer.

Well that was a week ago, and after a weekend of staying in Ash is starting to feel better. But as luck would have it, I am now not doing well. Of course, sex isn’t completely off the table, but when you’re miserable, having hot and cold flashes and can hardly move, sex isn’t really the first thing on your mind — especially when you’re liquored up on NyQuil.

And to add insult to injury, when I am sexually frustrated, I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I’ll admit it. I become a bit of a bitch, and the only thing that makes it better is a big cock somewhere inside me.

I ended up getting a little drunk one night over the weekend, and by a little drunk I mean, I don’t remember much. But I woke up the next day and read this tweet:

Thankfully, Ash puts up with me — and my temper tantrums — really well. Also, I think Ash and I are both on the mend. Hopefully we’ll both be up for one of our regular sex-filled, crazy weekends. I think we both need it.

xoxo Lilith Diana

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